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WELCOME TO

The Guilty Parent Club

Lightheartedly named, but seriously effective: Evidence-based support for overwhelmed parents when typical parenting advice just isn’t working
Why does parenting seem harder for our family than everyone else’s? Nothing I try seems to work...
I try so hard to stay calm… and then I snap. And then I feel awful. Am I messing them up?
I wonder if my child is neurodivergent… but then I tell myself I’m overreacting...

Out of survival mode,
into steadier parenting

You’re trying your best. You’ve read the parenting advice, you’re doing what you can... but it still doesn’t seem to work. There are tantrums and meltdowns. Your child doesn’t listen. You lose it too, and then feel guilty afterwards.

 

You might be wondering if they’re neurodivergent... and then questioning yourself for even thinking that. It can feel like you’re failing, or worse, somehow getting it wrong in a way that will affect them long-term.

But parenting doesn’t have to feel this relentless. The Guilty Parent Club helps overwhelmed parents move out of survival mode with practical, evidence-based support that actually fits real family life.

Want a taster of the podcast library? 🎧

I've selected four short podcast episodes that introduce some of the ideas parents tell me have helped them most.

In less than 30 minutes, you'll discover:

✓ Why certain thoughts can tip us into overwhelm - and how knowing this can help
✓ My unique BALM parent regulation exercise
✓ How playfulness can reduce conflict and build connection​ - with practical tips to try immediately

"The Guilty Parent Club was well worth it - we felt like we were investing in our children and our future relationships”

Guilty Parent Club member 2025

The Guilty Parent Club helps you...

Why this helps when other parenting advice doesn’t

You’ve likely tried “gentle parenting”, which sounds good in theory but falls apart when you’re overwhelmed, especially with a highly sensitive, emotionally intense, or neurodivergent child.

Most parenting advice either focuses on behaviour management, with rigid rules, or is too vague to make a difference in the moment. 

When your child is dysregulated, the real challenge isn’t knowing what to do, it’s staying regulated enough yourself to do it. On the other hand, you really can't stay calm if you feel completely out of your depth.

The Guilty Parent Club focuses on emotional regulation for both you and your child, using the 6P Framework to shift what you notice in real time - so you can respond how you want to, when it actually counts.

What's Inside The Club?

The Guilty Parent Club gives you a simple, flexible support system you can use in real family life:

  • A bite-sized audio library (podcast-style guidance) you can listen to in the moment you need it

  • A practical workbook system to help you apply ideas without overwhelm

  • A safe community of parents who get what this actually feels like

  • A guided email journey through The 6P Key Framework, which acts as your anchor when things feel chaotic

"How on earth can I get him to turn off the iPad without melting down?"
"What can I do about her hitting her brother, I've tried everything..."
"How can I get him to listen to instructions, he just refuses!" 

How does The Guilty Parent Club Work?

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Simple sign up below to join us on a plan that works for you.

 

Includes a free second parent to get you & your partner on the same page.

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Get immediate access to the 13-season podcast library & all linked  workbooks.

You can start today, or wait until you're ready with lifetime access.

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Be guided step-by-step through the 6P Key Framework: my gentle email pathway introduces a new Key topic each week - or simply dip in & out.

No overwhelm or pressure to keep up.

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Follow the link in your welcome email to join our exclusive parent community.

 

Share wins, dilemmas, & reflections with other human parents.

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The Club is suitable for kids aged up to 9 who are highly sensitive, neurodivergent, or neurotypical.

 

I'm very happy to chat if you're not sure.

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Benefit from 17 years of my clinical expertise, distilled into a flexible toolkit of techniques that work.​ 

 

Plus, 20% off a 1:1 consultation with me if you need additional support.

Ready to join our club?

A step-by-step guided pathway through the 6P Keys audio library, designed to support you with real parenting issues, in real time.​ Start your 3 months of calmer moments today. Sign up below for immediate, lifetime access. 

Not sure yet? If you’re trying to work out if this is right for you, talk it through with me and I’ll help you decide.

  • The Guilty Parent Club FOUNDATIONS

    99£
    Every month
    Spread the cost over 3 months (total cost £297). Immediate access to the 3-month guided pathway, with lifetime access to the library afterwards so you can dip back in whenever you need to.
    Valid for 3 months
  • Best Value

    The Guilty Parent Club FOUNDATIONS

    247£
     
    One-off payment (includes £50 discount versus pay over 3 months). Immediate access to the 3-month guided pathway, with lifetime access to the library afterwards.
     

Following purchase you'll receive immediate access to The Guilty Parent Club podcast library and supporting materials, as well as a link to join our parent community group.

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Introducing The 6 P Keys

Unlocking Steadier Parenting

The 6 P Keys is my powerful step-by-step framework - using evidence-based techniques that help keep our child's brain regulated - and our own.​ Read more in my blog post.

Here's a summary of the audio library (and linked beautiful workbooks) you'll find when you join the Club and access our private podcast feed.

 

You'll receive weekly emails introducing each theme to keep you on track - but you can dip in and out however you like. 

Not ready to join yet? 

Check out my free resources for parents


 

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About me

I’m Dr Jo Mueller, and I’m a Clinical Psychologist. I specialise in working with parents to help you be as understanding to yourself as you try to be to your kids. Because parenting is HARD and I get it.

 

I’ve been privileged to work with parents and children around the world for the last 17 years, including a decade in UK NHS mental health services.

 

I have worked on parenting research studies at renowned London universities, including designing specialist neurodivergent parenting programmes, and delivering training in evidence-based parenting approaches.

 

I'm also a mum of two myself, so - I see you. I understand the day-to-day realities of parenting, and I can help.

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What's my Why? 

 

I see so much parent guilt in my 1:1 practice but I KNOW it affects parents who can't make it to therapy, too. 

 

I’m on a crusade to use my expertise and experience to help as many parents as I can feel less guilty, self-critical & stressed, & more like yourself again, so you can be the parent you want to be for your kids.

 

That's what the Guilty Parent Club is here for, & it's so much better when we do it together.

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